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90 Day: Yara Has Secretly Taken Birth Control for Months Because She’s ‘Not Ready’ for Another Baby with Jovi

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Yarais coming clean on90 Day: The Last Resort.

On Monday’s episode of the TLC reality show, Yara dropped a family planning bombshell on her husbandJovi.

While discussing a trust exercise, theUkraine nativerevealed that she had been secretlytaking birth controlout of fear Jovi would intentionally get her pregnant.

“I’ve been keeping this secret for so long and today’s a day about communication,” Yara said in an interview without Jovi. “So I just want to tell him already. I want to be fully committed to this process, that’s why we’re here. We’re not here to keep in secrets. So I’m ready.”

Yara and Jovi.TLC

90 Day: Yara Has Secretly Taken Birth Control for Months Because She’s ‘Not Ready’ for Another Baby with Jovi

“Why would you not tell me that?" Jovi asked. “I feel like that’s something we should discuss instead of going behind my back to do it.”

Jovi and Yara.TLC

90 Day: Yara Has Secretly Taken Birth Control for Months Because She’s ‘Not Ready’ for Another Baby with Jovi

When Jovi asked if she thought he would intentionally get her pregnant without “having a plan together,” Yara defended herself and noted his insistence on getting his way.

In a joint confessional, Jovi admitted he didn’t appreciate how Yara gave him the news in front of their castmates.

“I know I can be adamant about what I want and maybe a little pushy sometimes,” he said, “but I really feel like you’ve blindsided me, and you shouldn’t have done this in front of everyone. Like, we should have done this in a private session [when] we’re just meeting the therapists. Like, you need to be more considerate.”

“No. Blindsiding you, it’s a group therapy,” Yara replied to a disgruntled looking Jovi. “That’s the whole point of the therapy.”

90 Day: Yara Has Secretly Taken Birth Control for Months Because She’s ‘Not Ready’ for Another Baby with Jovi

Jovi’s dismay was obvious to his other cast members who also reacted to the surprising news, withKelly Brownnoting that his disappointment was clear to everybody.

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90 Day: The Last Resortairs Mondays at 9 p.m. ET after90 Day Fiancé: The Other Wayat 8 p.m. ET on TLC.

source: people.com