“Man, I remember bugging my mom as a kid telling her I wanted a brother so bad. I was the only child looking for company and someoneto look after and take care of,” Zaire began his caption. “I have been blessed to have my best friend, Zaya with me for 12 years. We did everything together … we fought, we played, we laughed and we cried. But the one thing we never did was leave each other behind.”
“I’ve told you that I would lay my life down to make sure you are ten toes down and happy on this earth,” he told his younger sibling. “Idon’t care what they think Z, you are my best friend and I love you kid, and if it means anything, just know there’s no love lost on this side ✊?”
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DuringTuesday’s episodeofTheEllen DeGeneresShow, Wade, 38, recalled the moment Zaya came out to him and wifeGabrielle Union, and also said that he hopes to give her “thebest opportunity to be her best self.”
“It’s now our job to go out and get information, to reach out to every relationship that we have — my wife reached out to everybody on the cast ofPose— we’re just trying to figure out as much information as we can to make sure that we give our child the best opportunity to be her best self,” theformer Miami Heat playerexplained.
Wade — who is also dad to daughterKaavia James, 15 months, and sonXavier Zechariah, 6, as well as the guardian of nephewDahveon Morris, 18 — shared additionally that he was proud of Zaya and her role as “a leader.”
“Once Zaya came home and said, ‘I want you to call me Zaya and I’m ready to take on this,’ I looked at her and said, ‘You are a leader. And this is our opportunity to allow you to be a voice,’ ” Wade added toEllen DeGeneres. “Right now it’s through us, because she’s 12 years old, but eventually it will be through her.”
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The same day, Union, 47, shared a series of heartwarming tweets,raving over Zaya and introducing herwith a video of the preteen stressing the importance of being “true to yourself.”
In the clip,Zaya was seen riding in a golf cartalongside Wade, explaining, “I would say, just be true to yourself — what’s the point of being on this earth if you’re going to try and be someone you’re not? … Be true and don’t really care what the stereotypical way of being you is.”
“Even when people are being mean and when people are getting hurt because they’re trying to be themselves and even through that you still want people to live their truth?” Wade asks Zaya, who says, “I know it can get tough, but I think you push through and be the best you. It’s become more accepting. … Even through hard times you gotta push through, it’s very worth it. When you canlook in the mirror and say ‘hi’ to yourself.”
“She’s compassionate, loving, whip smart and we are so proud of her,” Union tweeted with the video, praising Zaya. “It’s ok to listen to, love &respect your children exactly as they are. Love and light good people.”
source: people.com
