Hoda Kotb and Jenna Bush Hager.Photo: TODAY with Hoda & Jenna/YouTube

Hoda, Jenna on comforting their daughters when they feel left out

Hoda Kotbis giving insight into what the last few weeks have been like for older daughterHaley Joy.

OnTodayThursday, the daytime host talked with co-hostJenna Bush Hagerabout comforting the 6-year-old as her sisterHope Catherine, 3, who hadhealth complications that landed her in the Intensive care unitand the hospital, gets attention around her recovery.

“We fall short,” the mom of two said. “I was even thinking this too. You know, Hope hasn’t been feeling great, and all the attention’s on Hope and Haley wonders too. Like, ‘I’m here, see me. I need something, too. Carry me. Do what you’re doing for Hope.’ "

The moms asked each other, “How do you do it? How do you make everyone feel seen?”

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“It’s weird, but I feel like I got most of my resilience in life because of that. You didn’t expect to always be seen and heard,” said Kotb.

While chatting with Hager upon her return toTodaylast week, the Emmy-winning journalist, 58, opened up about her absence from the show as she cared for her little girl.

“I feel like, life is one way on a Monday — and we all have our Mondays and we complain about them. We’re like, ‘Oh, what a crummy Monday,’ and then Tuesday rolls around and something really hits hard, and you realize that Monday was actually pretty awesome,” Kotb said of the experience.

Hoda Kotb with her kids.Hoda Kotb Instagram

Hoda Kotb kids

“So for us, it was little Hope had to go to the hospital, and she was in the ICU for a few days and then the hospital for another week and it was really scary,” Kotb continued. “And she’svibrant and brilliant.”

Adding that she’s “over the moon” to have her little one home, Kotb expressed her gratitude for “how amazing people are.”

source: people.com