Between a global pandemic, family disagreements and daily media scrutiny,Meghan MarkleandPrince Harry’s step back from royal life hasn’t exactly been simple or straightforward, but the unexpected changes in course have surprised them for the better, Omid Scobie tells PEOPLE in this week’s cover story.

“The hardest part for them was takingthose initial steps away from their royal roles,” says Scobie, who co-wroteFinding Freedom: Harry and Meghan and the Making of a Modern Royal Familywith fellow longtime royal reporter Carolyn Durand.

“That was harder than they would ever imagined. They had had it all mapped out in their heads,” he tells PEOPLE.

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“They knew that they had to change things, but what they had actually planned wasn’t actually what was best,” says Scobie, who spoke with the couple’s friends and close associates to writeFindingFreedom, which was first published last summer and is now being released in paperback on August 31. The updated edition features a new epilogue, which is excerpted in this week’s PEOPLE.

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For more on the lessons that the couple has learned in a tumultuous year, pick up a copy of the latest issue of PEOPLE on newsstands on Friday.

“They tried to find a way to compromise,” continues Scobie. “But would that have enabled them to have that level of happiness and security that they have today? Probably not. Those ties to the institution [of the monarchy] would have still been strong and there would have constantly been issues about financial endeavors and the business decisions they made.”

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“If we look at where they are now, they feel that it worked out in the best possible way in the end,” he tells PEOPLE.

“It’s only now that they’ve found a life that supports their interests and enables them to focus on the things that are important to them.”

source: people.com